While writing my previous blog, You’d Be So Pretty If<\/a>, I wrote the following paragraphs about the steps leading up to and through my surgery. After looking through it, I realized that my blog was turning into a novella, and this section would be better suited as a stand-alone post. So for those of you interested in the steps leading up to and through my surgery, the story is below!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n One of the most common responses I received when I told people I was going to Mexico for surgery was shock and horror. I\u2019ll be honest, Mexico wasn\u2019t my first choice. Unfortunately, the US health insurance\/healthcare system sucks. No matter how many doctors recommended a WLS procedure, my health insurance company refused to cover surgery. Fortunately, the friend I had mentioned that had WLS a few years ago, had also gone to Mexico, and I had already been watching and researching the surgeon she worked with.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n My initial plan was to go in August, shortly after the kids\u2019 school year started. Covid had other plans though. In mid-June our household finally caught covid. While the rest of the family snapped back fairly quickly, it became apparent that I wasn\u2019t going to. Thanks to covid, I had some significant cardiac issues start to arise. This pushed my surgery date until I was more stable.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n At the start of September, my team of doctors figured out how to treat my heart issues. I started walking daily, right after I would drop my boys off at school. Knowing my weight probably contributed towards the issues I developed, I knew I wanted to start getting more active in preparation for surgery. There were still those weird throat issues we had to resolve, but overall, I was healthy. I started to notice each time I was weighed at the doctor, the number kept going down. The walking combined with what little I was eating was starting to show.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n By mid-November, we finally figured out the throat issues, and I started the process of booking my procedure. One of the drawbacks to having surgery in Mexico is that I was going to have to assemble a local care team- a dietician, a doctor to help with follow-ups\/bloodwork, and a personal trainer to help me as my body changed.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n The doctor I had chosen to work with, Dr. Jorge Maytorena<\/a> was based at a medical center in Tijuana. When I contacted the clinic, LongTerm WLS<\/a>, I was shocked to discover that I could essentially book the procedure whenever I was most interested. I only needed to get approved for the procedure and pay a deposit to secure my surgical date.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n The process was fairly simple. Once I made my initial inquiry, I was assigned a \u201cconcierge\u201d to help me navigate the booking process and answer any questions I may have. I ended up booking the procedure for mid-January. This way, the kids would be in school, and there wouldn\u2019t be any holiday temptations\/social gatherings that would make me feel awkward.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n After copious amounts of research, I decided that a mini bypass was my best option for several reasons. In addition to the fact that it was the recommended procedure for my bmi range, the risks, operating time, and recovery period were lower than a traditional bypass. Not to mention, the results were comparable (and better in some cases) to having the full bypass. It also didn\u2019t hurt that it\u2019s been clinically proven that having a gastric bypass, though slightly riskier, has a better success rate for keeping off the weight long-term. This is due to the fact that it\u2019s both restrictive (smaller stomach size) and malabsorbtive (less small intestine). It also alters hormones in the gut so I\u2019d feel fuller longer.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n I knew that once December rolled around, my diet would have to change drastically, and I would need to create and work with a team of local professionals that would help ensure my success, both prior to and after surgery.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n I was committed to starting a bariatric diet that would prepare my body for surgery a few weeks ahead of when I would need to, just to help with the adjustment and my health. Given that, it was very important to me that I would be able to find a professional that had a proven track record with helping individuals who had experienced repeated weight loss failures.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n I was excited to find a local dietician that did just that. I felt even better about working with them when I learned one of their specialties was helping patients who were preparing for & recovering from bariatric surgery. After my first visit with them, I experienced a massive amount of relief. In addition to helping me with meal planning & and accountability, they also sold specialized food that made it easy for me to stick with a diet that was appealing, healthy, and convenient.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Knowing that in addition to a dietary change, I’d need to work on my strengthening my physical body, I found a local gym. I knew I’d need accountability and encouragement, so I met with one of their personal trainers to explain my situation and develop a plan. As an added bonus, they also offered red light therapy, something I was very interested in for post-surgical healing. I started working with my trainer once a week and going to the gym 1-3 times a week.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n I attempted to find a local practice that offered bariatric surgery to help me maintain other potential post-surgery issues, but I wasn\u2019t able to find anyone. Fortunately, my primary care doctor offered to help me monitor my levels and help answer potential questions. She said she preferred me to have the surgery locally but understood that without my health insurance helping it wouldn\u2019t be affordable.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n I also made sure to surround myself and my family with support for the time I\u2019d be away and for part of my recovery. My mother agreed to be my travel & surgery companion, despite the fact she absolutely hated flying and was nervous about my procedure. I spoke with my mother-in-law, and she agreed to come help Fredric with the boys while I was away & for a few days after I returned while I was recovering.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n From Thanksgiving until I left for Mexico, (approximately 7 weeks), I lost almost 40 lbs. I was working with my personal trainer, going to the gym several times a week, and following a carefully planned out diet. My body and plans were as ready as they were going to be!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n January 18th, 2023 rolled around much more quickly than I anticipated. I was ready though- the more I had to defend the choice I made, the firmer my resolute became. I understood that I was going to be facing a whole host of physical and emotional changes after surgery, however I trusted myself, my team, and the process to reach my goal of a healthier and happier Crystal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n Confident in my research and knowing I had been putting in the hard work, I arose that chilly, pre-dawn morning, fully packed and ready to go to the airport with my mother. We were set to fly into San Diego, and despite the weather causing some havoc, we were able to be there in time for our shuttle driver, Edgar, to pick us up and take us across the border.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n The procedure I booked not only included my surgery & medication, but it also covered my shuttle and a guest condo for the night before surgery. The guest condo was essentially a very basic Airbnb- there were a few bottles of water, (the tap water in Mexico isn\u2019t safe for consumption), several beds\/bathrooms, and a TV.<\/p>\r\nAll Roads (Planes) Lead To Mexico<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Taking The Leap<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Assembling My Local Team<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
Holy Cow, It’s Time To Go!<\/h2>\r\n
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